Striking a balance as a family caregiver

More and more adults are finding themselves in the position of being a family caregiver for a parent, spouse or other loved one. According to the AARP’s 2015 Caregiving in the U.S. report, nearly 35 million Americans have provided unpaid care for someone over the age of 50 in the last year.

Caregiving is a noble and important part of familial support, but it can also be very challenging. If you find yourself in a new role as a caregiver, it is important to focus on finding a balance between caring for your loved one, and living your life.

Here are a few tips to help navigate the demands of serving as a family caregiver and still take care of yourself:

Take a time out: Caregivers can spend so much time worrying about the needs of others that they forget to take time for themselves, and become rundown or burned out. Take a few minutes for yourself every day. It can be something as simple as going for a walk, grabbing a coffee or watching a few funny videos on YouTube, and you’ll come back refreshed and reinvigorated.

Be mindful of your own health: Make sure you are eating well, getting enough exercise and keeping up with your regular doctor’s appointments. You can’t be an effective caregiver if you are not well yourself.

Familiarize yourself with local resources: You are not alone, even though it may feel like it sometimes. There are local organizations and resources available to help you plan for the future and ease some of the worry.

Don’t be too hard on yourself: It’s easy to get discouraged when you are juggling many responsibilities, especially if you are a caregiver that is also working and maybe even taking care of children or grandchildren at the same time. You can’t control everything, and you can only be so prepared. If you and your loved ones are happy and healthy, it really doesn’t matter if the house is a mess, or you are eating spaghetti for the third night in a row.

Ask for help: Take advantage of your support system. By accepting help from friends and family for certain tasks like grocery shopping or rides to doctor’s appointments, you allow them to ease some of the strain and keep you from feeling alone. Know your limits, and understand that there may come a time when your loved one requires care that you can’t provide.

If you have any questions about caregiving or resources available in the Phoenix area, please visit our website, or call 480.878.4112 to speak to our Care Manager Kristie Chadwick today.

Paradise Living Centers to open second home in Central Phoenix

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Exciting news from Paradise Living Centers – An announcement of a second home! That’s right, we’ll soon be opening up a brand new assisted living facility. This latest residence will operate in conjunction with our Paradise Valley home, but is located in Central Phoenix. However, the new home will provide the same level of exceptional service that has set Paradise Living Centers apart.

 

Construction on the ten-bedroom, ten-bathroom classic ranch style home located on the corner of 3rd Street and Maryland Avenue and targeted to be complete in March. In addition to each resident having their own private bedroom and bath, they will enjoy spacious common areas for dining and entertainment, as well as a relaxing outdoor space.

 

Many of the luxurious amenities that distinguish our properties will continue to be a part of our future. In addition to the dedicated 24-hour awake staff of state-certified Caregivers, we’ll also have a full-time nurse, who is on call 24/7, to regularly assess our residents’ health and coordinate with primary care physicians.

 

Three fresh healthy meals, and various snacks, are prepared daily by our private chef – and residents are encouraged to give taste and dietary input at our monthly food counsel meetings.

 

Our elegant new home will continue to foster a sense of comfort that welcomes residents and their families. Daily and weekly activities are tailored to a resident’s interests and abilities, and the large open indoor and outdoor living spaces encourages social interaction, but does not compromise individual privacy.

 

Situated in the heart of Central Phoenix at 302. E, Maryland Ave., our new home provides easy access to nearby family, hospitals and health care facilities, businesses and entertainment. For families that live or work in this area, it is nice to have Mom and Dad conveniently living nearby.

Keeping up With Paradise Living Centers

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Greetings, friends and family! It’s been a fun and busy summer for us and, believe it or not, we’re just getting started. We know sometimes it can be hard to keep up with all of the exciting things happening at Paradise Living Centers, so here are the highlights from the past few weeks, plus some of the events and projects we’re looking forward to in the future:

Butterfly Wonderland

On June 24, we had the pleasure of visiting Butterfly Wonderland, America’s largest butterfly atrium. Our residents and volunteers loved it, and it was a wonderful way to cap off our “spring fling” events program!

July 3 Barbecue

To officially kick off the summer celebrations, we held an Independence Day barbecue on July 3. The traditional American-style barbecue was the perfect way to set the tone for the 4th and the coming months.

Music Program Inspired by Alive Inside

Alive Inside—a documentary about social worker Dan Cohen using music to heal and combat memory loss—has inspired us to try something similar at Paradise Living Centers. With help from volunteers and loved ones, we are building personalized playlists for each resident. If you have any music devices you aren’t using that you would like to donate for this developing program, or any information that you think would be helpful, please do not hesitate to contact us! We are overjoyed about this project and will make sure to keep you updated as it unfolds.

Thank You!

We want to give a special thanks to our summer volunteers, Grace and Cole, for all of their help this summer. In addition, we want to thank Linda and the other family members who have helped build our new music program.

Upcoming Events

We have plans to visit the Musical Instrument Museum (MIM) in August and are excited for our residents to enjoy the more than 6,000 instruments the museum holds. Stay tuned for information on transportation and cost as we draw closer to the date.

On Sunday, September 13, we will host a family meal at 5:00 p.m. We hope everyone in town is able to join us!

Birthday Celebrations!

We always like to recognize our staff and residents at Paradise Living Centers on their birthdays. We recently celebrated our caregiver Danielle’s birthday, and we will celebrated three other birthdays in August – our resident’s Dorothy and Murry and our chef Luis.

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What Causes Sundowners Syndrome?

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Sundowners Syndrome generally affects sufferers of Alzheimer’s disease and dementia. The syndrome received its name because the symptoms are exhibited after “sundown.” However, not all those who suffer from dementia exhibit the symptoms. Sundowners largely remains a mystery to medical science, but there are a number of theories as to why the symptoms present themselves at night. Some believe it is the culmination of all the sensory stimulation that occurs throughout daily routine that overwhelms and causes stress. The syndrome may prevent sufferers from settling in during the night and getting a much needed good night’s sleep. This can make the sufferer agitated and lead them to wander.

There are a number of signs to watch for:

According to WebMD, sundowning happens to almost 20 percent of people with Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia. The syndrome tends to peak during the middle stages of Alzheimer’s, although it generally gets better as the disease progresses.

There are several factors that may increase the risk of sundowning including:

Sundowning is a common cause of caregiver burnout but there are several treatments to make it less severe for both the parties:

Activity

Diet

Medical advice

Alternative therapies

Conducive sleeping environment

Calm reassurance

As a caregiver it is important to be aware of the behavioral patterns. Help your loved one through reassurance while encouraging activity to distract them and prevent confusion and agitation. Sundowners is not something that your loved one can control, but keeping a level head will help get you through the stressful moments. For more information on quality care of a loved one click here.

5 Decorating Tips for Senior Living

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Moving a loved one into a senior living home can be a tough transition, but one thing that doesn’t have to change is the quality of their living environment. There’s no need for a bedroom to be plain and dreary; it’s simple to design a senior living space that is both stylish and functional.

Here are some decorative design tips to consider when helping your loved one transition to a new home or assisted living facility:

Create a Space with Memories

To create a living space that makes your loved one feel at ease, it is important to include belongings that remind them of home. Special mementos, family photos and favorite furniture pieces are great ways to incorporate memories that will help an assisted living environment to feel like home.

Select Favorable Colors

Eyesight declines as we grow older, so using contrasting colors when decorating can be beneficial for visibility reasons. Senior living centers may not have the option of repainting walls. Instead choose colorful paintings or pictures and bright accessories that stand out against the wall color to make objects more easily distinguishable.

Consider the Layout

Be careful to keep walkways wide and clear when placing furniture to allow your loved ones ample space to walk through; especially for those using walkers or wheelchairs. Try arranging furniture around a focal point, for instance placing a couch in front of a window so that the view of the outdoors can be enjoyed.

Use Innovative Storage Techniques

The senior living center your loved one is moving into may be less spacious than where they are currently living. It is important to consider what belongings will be most important to them and where to store these items. Developing clever means of storage, such as an ottoman with storage space in the center, will reduce clutter and allow your loved one to bring more of their precious mementos with them.

Taking advantage of these design tips can help you create a living space for your loved one that is safe, stylish and functional, while still feeling like home. At Paradise Living Centers we encourage residents to personalize their bedrooms. The more they feel at home, the less overwhelmed they will be. As they make the transition to assisted living, we want them to be as comfortable as possible.

Tech Products for Seniors

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We wrote a blog post last October about Seniors and Social Media, and discussed the benefits of creating a Facebook account. Using social media to reconnect and stay in touch with family members can be a great tool but not all tech products or tools are geared toward an older demographic. Also bear in mind, many seniors are private about their personal life, unlike younger generations, so Facebook is not always the best platform for them; we’ve all seen that Geico ad!

Senior-centric tech products are few and far between, but we have come across a few that are worth checking out. See what may help you stay connected to your loved ones who are living independently or in an assisted living facility.

grandPad:

Creators of this device say that this is a simple senior tablet that is easy to use and extremely secure. The company founder developed the product as a solution for staying in touch with older family members. The device and app are designed so that “Mom” never misses a memory. It digitally connects your loved one to their friends and family and has large text and colorful icons that make it easy to use. It also includes many customizable features, providing the ability to share information through the grandPad Companion App, Facebook or Instagram.

Clarity Products:

These smart communications devices were designed with seniors in mind to help them live a more engaged life. Seniors between the ages of 64 to 75 predominantly suffer from hearing loss. The sound level on Clarity’s calling devices is amplified to help reduce the frustration of communicating when suffering from a hearing impairment. The company offers a variety of cell phones as well as corded and cordless landline telephones.

Lively Smartwatch:

Think of this device as a Fitbit that not only monitors steps, it tells time and sends reminders and alerts. Wearable technology is not an entirely new concept, but as technology advances so does the ability of such devices. The Lively Smartwatch reminds the wearer when to take medications, monitors food and drink intake and has a button that alerts a ‘Lively’ agent of a potentially life-threatening situation. The watch is designed to be easy to use and gives peace of mind to those that have loved ones living independently.

It can be difficult to introduce a new technology to seniors, but taking the time to explain the benefits of a device might be a good first step to change their way of thinking. Learning how to use something new may be met with resistance, but with encouragement it can be enriching.

At Paradise Living Centers we are focused on providing families with the best care possible, and committed to enriching our residents’ lives.